My ex and I have had lots of fights since we broke up over 4 months ago. When we were together, we were perfect. Acted like an actual married couple, really. But now we're up and down and back and forth and we are rarely on good terms.
About 3 weeks ago, he stopped texting me in the middle of a conversation. Nothing unusual and I expected he'd answer the next day. Well he didn't. He didn't answer until a week later on the day I had a serious doctor appointment which made me feel a lot better that he didn't seem to be ignoring me. He said the only reason he wasn't talking to me is that he'd been busy getting ready for Christmas. That was believable, but now I think he was lying.
A few days ago, he texted me again. He started a fight. That was the first time he had texted me in 2 weeks (other than the day of my appointment, which was only one message). He said I was being annoying and obsessive. I was texting him like two or three times a day because he wasn't answering. How is that annoying and obsessive? He was ignoring me, thus causing me to text him to see if he'd ever answer.
So the fight ended badly and he still hasn't answered. What do I do? What can I say to him? Why is he acting like this? Any help is appreciated. Thank you
His (our) friends have been trying to help and no one has gotten anything out of him except that he wants to stay friends for now, which is fine with me.
Neither of us have had a relationship since then and it's pretty obvious that neither of us have moved on yet.
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He is moving on. He still has love for you, but its been 4 months. He is obviously seeing someone or some others that spark his interest. He's not coming back and the best thing you can do is find something that makes you happy and put all your focus there. If he misses you and wants to get back with you then he'll be back and show it, but the amazing thing is you will be content and happy enough in your own life you won't miss him or want him back.0