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What the fuck are yOU DOING WITH YOUR LIFE
You break up with him. He didn't cheat on you, so he is a better person than you, and deserves better than a cheater.
There are no excuses. You were a bad person. He doesn't deserve to date a bad person.
If you are in the age group indicated by your avatar, you are an adult. You should be smart enough to know how to say "no" and you should be smart enough to realize if you are failing and to stop doing the same thing. Your ex physically and emotionally abused you so you realized you had to get away. You found someone new, but you went back to your ex to "tell him he had to leave me alone", but once you got there you listened to his sweet talk and gave him your pussy again. Three times. If you are scare of him yo do not go back to talk with him. You tell him by phone it is over and you are not having anything more to do with him. Then you don't talk to him anymore. And you don't even look at his tests to you. But you keep talking to him and responding to his texts. No wonder your new guy has given up. You have been treating him like shit.
The new guy is better off without you, because you keep going back and sleeping with the old one. Let the new guy go to find a gal who will not cheat on him and keep truning back to an abuser.
Leave him alone you don't just accidentally sleep with your ex 3 times while trying to tell him to leave you alone why couldn't you call him those 3 times? The new guy is better off without you and if you genuinely care for him let him get on with his life.
For one stop responding to your ex. Block him, change your number, unfolllow him for everything, and whatever else you got to completely lose connection with him. Second, If you still wanna be with your partner, keep telling him how sorry you are and how much you really wanna start over. And try to look into couples therapy bc there are some issues going on. I think he'll give you one more chance, If you show him that he's the only guy for you.
my ex cheated on me... im going to respectfully tell you that you need to break up with the guy you cheated on, then get them both out of your life, you need to take control of your life and understand that when a person gives there heart to you it should mean more to you, you can't go around breaking hearts, it makes people bitter and it leaves a lot of baggage for the next person you meet. learn that love is worth cherishing.
hope this helps,
I hate to be the one to tell you this but you already lost him. You lost him when you cheated 3 times. Honestly, if I was him I would move on from you. Not saying you're a terrible scum of a person but in my opinion it wouldn't be worth it to me to stay with a person who cheated on my 3 times. Somehow I have a feeling you two will be back together and that saddens me.
I pity on girls like you.
Well I'd leave you as well, you sound like a complete nightmare that can't ever be trusted to be honest.
Now you break up with him for his sake and become a celibate nun.
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