I didn't really know what else to title it, I started talking to this guy, and he knew I had issues with my ex after a 2 year of physical and mental abuse and how I needed to get through them to be at a healthy mindset again, he knew that. He said he wanted to be on board to help me and focus on us and get over these problems, then sadly.. I went back to my ex and slept with him 3 times, all of which 3 times I went to specifically tell him he had to leave me alone because I met someone knew (He was harassing me and causing my partner to have anxiety), He sweet talked me and basically turned me over and did his duty, I am scared of this man, and I didn't feel like I was entitled to say no, I thought he would hit me or find out who my partner was and say something to make him leave me.. The last time I slept with him I told him to get off of me and that I had met someone new, I told my partner this. He is still damaged by the situation 3 months later, how distant I was before we started dating, but he knew I was completely ready yet.. He broke up with me a day after new years saying he couldn't do it anymore, he had a wave of overwhelming thoughts and he can't get my ex out of his head and he needs time to himself to evaluate his thoughts and how he feels... What do I do?
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For one stop responding to your ex. Block him, change your number, unfolllow him for everything, and whatever else you got to completely lose connection with him. Second, If you still wanna be with your partner, keep telling him how sorry you are and how much you really wanna start over. And try to look into couples therapy bc there are some issues going on. I think he'll give you one more chance, If you show him that he's the only guy for you.2