It was 3 days ago my boyfriend of a little over a year asked for a break. It's a little harder for us I have a child and he has two kids. We both knew this before while we were just friends. We took are time and when we were ready we started getting serious. Are relationship was great he was so happy as was I. We lived a little apart but we would go back and fourth. He works a lot and he's also into a racing career. I knew all this before as well and I was ok with it. We never fought life was just amazing. Till the past weekend. When I got to his house and he got there right off the bat I felt like things were odd. I know he works a lot and work takes a lot out of him so that's what I thought it was. Over the rest of the weekend he just seemed not the same. It wasn't us. I asked if he was ok a few times I didn't want to bug him he told me he was fine. Or nothing. Then Monday came can that morning he asked if we could talk. So long story short we did and he said he thinks we should take a break. I asked why and all he really said was my yelling. Meaning my 6 year old doesn't always listen and I yell sometimes. Now he had kids to. And he did yell at them also. I asked what the break meant and he didn't know either he doesn't know what he wants. How can we be great last weekend and then things change so fast. Does he just have to much going on with work and this race car stuff? Thanks sorry it's long.
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It could be that he has things going on, but I'm not sure what else to tell you other than you need to set a time limit on this "break". Tell him that he has a week to sort out his feelings, you'll go off and do your thing - and at the end of that week he needs to decide whether you two are getting back together or splitting altogether.1