"I am going to completely disappear from your life until the beginning of March.
I will not ring you, text you, email you, or do anything to generate or initiate contact with you, at all. I will completely disappear from January 21th to February 27th.
Until then, I think it best you do the same.
Do not ring me, text me, email me or do anything to generate or initiate contact with me, at all brandi
The day after, I will meet you at ruby Tuesday's on Tidewater Dr. At 2:00 for lunch and you must let me know, that day, there and then, what you want to do.
Stay with me, or not?
I think for both our sakes, you must have found a definite answer by then.
Only then, can we go forward and do whatever is needed, depending on what you decide.
But you need a clear head, away from me, to sort your mind out.
I need a clear head, away from you, to sort mines as together as well.
We cannot go back to the way things were.
That's what tore us apart in the first place.
But we need this space, to focus. I hope you can understand this. Hopefully I hear from you on that day. I will call you. Let crissy know I love her and you so very much which is why I had to have to strength to do this. Again I love you. We just need time to think apart. It's the only way we could think clear and see our feelings clear as well."
I am the dumper whit all of the dumpee symptoms I have tried letters and text. And tried giving her space. She is confusing and sending mixed signals. Does this show strength or does it mess everything up?
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Yeah, your chances can decrease... If I saw this letter an ultimatum would hurt me... I will keep in consideration your pain, but if she's confused, hurt... not sure what's the deal with you and her.. plus u said all this in anger, when you could of let her know you miss her and you wanna work through things... and let's just slow down a bit. Instead your adding pressure to a situation it seems like you created.0
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