A person you tried letting down easy started to cut again. What do you do?
What would you do if you saw a person you rejected cut?
What Girls Said 1
That would tell me that this person wasn't mentally stable and needs help. I would alert his friends.3
Yeah I would realize he wasn't stable to begin with. I wouldn't blame myself because everyone has a right to not want to be with someone, and he's likely doing it because he has other issues in his life. I would reassure him that I was there for him, but I would also notify other people like teachers or his parents, even the authorities if I thought it was life threatening.0
Cutting is a help cry.
It is almost a 100% female phenom.
Interestingly cutters are not known to take the next step to suicide.
I served on our college crisis line for 2 years and that was part of our training.
I would not run.
I just wouldn't.
Just be open, available, but firm about the future.
You should encourage her to seek professional help.
Yes, be a friend without benefits.
Have to let her close friends know about it
For yourself, best to stay out of it because if you show more concern she would feel she has hope still0
Thats a really tough spot your in.0
Nothing. You can't help them if they're self harming. It's not your job to save them. Let their parents step in and give them professional help.0
Get him some mental help.0
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