My bf broke up with me New years. Been together 2 1/2 years. This is twice now he broke up with me because of his financial issues. First time we got back together after 6 months. This time he told me he doesn't love me just cares a lot (which i think is Bs ). I believe he said that to help push me away. He lost his job due to down sizing and just recently started school for electrical. I keep telling him things will turn around for him. If he can't live here cause he doesn't want to be financial burden or sinking me (his words) then we live apart. He keeps saying it won't change for long time. Im better off without him. How do i make him realize he's wrong to break up because of money. It's never been about money to me at all. If financially we can't be living together ok but why break up? I still think there's love there. You don't take your gf on surprise vaca to Mexico and then 4 months later dump her. Pls help I've tried to reason with him.
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You have to be willing to lose $300. This is what you do. Take $300 out of the bank. Twenty-five $5 bills, five $20 bills, one $100 arrange them in this order smallest in top, largest on bottom. Invite him to talk to you at a park, preferably where they have tables and benches. Tell him you aren't sure how to explain that money doesn't mean anything to you, nor does him being a financial burden on you, then take out the bills and place a lighter next to them. Pick up a five and set on fire. Repeat process, while telling him, that without him in your life this money is meaningless. You'll find out how he really feels, he'll either tell you he sincerely doesn't want to be with you or he will snap out of it. Hopefully he does it before you burn through all of the fives.0