My bf broke up with me New years. Been together 2 1/2 years. This is twice now he broke up with me because of his financial issues. First time we got back together after 6 months. This time he told me he doesn't love me just cares a lot (which i think is Bs ). I believe he said that to help push me away. He lost his job due to down sizing and just recently started school for electrical. I keep telling him things will turn around for him. If he can't live here cause he doesn't want to be financial burden or sinking me (his words) then we live apart. He keeps saying it won't change for long time. Im better off without him. How do i make him realize he's wrong to break up because of money. It's never been about money to me at all. If financially we can't be living together ok but why break up? I still think there's love there. You don't take your gf on surprise vaca to Mexico and then 4 months later dump her. Pls help I've tried to reason with him.
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All you can do is tell him that is not the money. Let him know that the pain of not being with and supporting him hurts way more then financial hardship. But you are going to have to let him go and do what he feels is right. It's his pride. Not being able to be the man he needs to be for you is killing him. It hurts him to see you everyday knowing he can't be what he needs to. Let him go. Send him text each day simply saying, "I love you" and leave it at that. In time he will understand and when he gets back on his feet in sure he'll return.0