Why does my ex keep showing up at my bar after she dumped me?
What Girls Said 21
She probably wants to make you jealous. She is playing with you, it's the classic game of who is happier after the break up. She is trying to show you she is the winner. Obviously it's childish of her to be even doing that, just don't go anymore. Show her that you don't care, heck bring some of your girl friends and let them in on the plan. And if she doesn't show up that day hey more fun for you, you and your friends are gonna have a great time without proving something1
Make you jealous and to hurt you. there could be possibility that she wants you back that's why she tries to make you jealous. Trying to make you Sooo jealous that you'll text her saying that you don't want to see her with any other guy and you want her back. But don't she's just a hoe for moving on that fast1
She's crazy. She's just being vindictive and as for the staying friends move, its her way of keeping a back burner man. Personally I would ignore her and be friendly to her new victims, it would piss her off and be funny.3
Maybe she misses you and wanted to see you, i would bet money that the guys she showed up with were just doing her a favor, she probably didn't want to come there alone because you might be with someone. I think if she had a new boyfriend she would have shown up with the same guy twice. the first guy she brought with her probably wouldn't do it again so she had to find someone else. lol1
She is regretting breaking up with you and trying to make you jealous. Don't even look her way when she's there.1
She just wants your attention its obviously she wants you back otherwise why would she go with those guys I think she might of realized she made a mistake people do say that if a person wants you back on of the things they do is go to places where you would usually go to1
wow lol…she obviously still cares or she wouldn't bother. She still has feelings.
She gets to see you but…she enjoys being "free" and meeting new people, and getting drunk while you're stuck working.1
To make you jealous. She just wants you to see she can move on and get out and have a goid time like you. She misses you.1
She broke up with you to get your attention she really likes you and would like you to put some effort into her she cares tremendously0
Totally trying to get you jealous!! Only way to stop it is ignore it. Don't get even, don't show any sign of being upset, smile, walk up to them, introduce yourself, shake the guys hand and walk away and completely ignore her each time. Don't answer texts or phone calls and don't wait till they're drunk or your asking for a fight. Follow those simple steps and It will come to an end. Don't show it bothers you!!! That's what she wants to see.0
She misses you obviously. It means she regrets dumping and she's trying to make you jealous so that you might step in and take her back but that's all your choice hun. 😊💯0
She wants to get you jealous. Don't let it get to you. Treat her as you would any other person in that bar0
She most likely wants you back , or she just wants a drink.0
Yep a total jealous move - I'm in a similar situation but I'm in a small town so the only bar I go to is the bar where we met - so I'm waiting for the day we bump into each other ( not looking forward to it ) I was there last night and it was kareoke night and someone sang HIS song that he usually sings and I was nearly sick because I thought it was him for a second. So I would be going to another bar if I had the opportunity. I was with another guy but just as a first date and was as nervous as hell he might walk in but its not like I can go anywhere else. As it was he never turned up. Phew. But if I could go to another bar I would because its still fresh and I don't want to regurgitate all that I want to go out and have a good time but I don't want to sit at home either and make the bar ' off limits ' - so as she has options, its a jealousy ' look at me ' move. Ignoring it is my best advice.0
she's trying to make you jealous, she still cares.1
mayb she still likes you and wanna get back with u0
Maybe you make all your customers feel welcome... Wow that's an all time loWhat. She wants to remain friends? You really must be a nice man.
Maybe you do what I did... There was a lady that did that to my dad (sorry I'm a daddy's girl) and my dad was always very polite. But she usually brings guys to this jazz bar where we regularly attend. So I filed a complaint with the officers that she was a nuisance and she was banned from the bar forever.
I'm a girl but I don't like to see my dad acting all nice and all with the slut...0
Maybe she not over you and struggle herself to get over you...0
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What Guys Said 4
There are two reasons:
1) she is trying to make you jealous because she wants more attention from you;
2) she honestly does not really care for you and is a vindictive crazy chick!!!
If I were you, switch saloons for awhile and let things calm down. Avoid her and see if she tries to seek you out! Go back after a few weeks and see if she is still attending. If she stops attending then she was just trying to rub it in your face. If she seeks you out or inquires with your friends as to where your are then she was just looking for you to give her more attention.
In the end it is your play... take her back knowing that she is willing to play you again at any point for attention... or move on now and count yourself lucky and find someone that is not into the head game thing! If all she wanted was attention... breaking up and dating other guys is not the correct route. She should have sat down with you and said something to you, and given you the choice to make amends.1
She's messing with your head... making you jealous by rubbing your face in it...3
Sounds to me like she is trying to make you jealous. To see you in pain over what she is doing is nothing more than an ego boost for her.0
Tryin' to hook up! 😉0
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