So my boyfriend broke up with me about a week ago. Since then I've been a complete emotional wreck. There's so much I did for him and so much I put up with and I feel like he never gave me a chance to change and make things better for us. So of course I'm mad and upset. I call him tonight because he's been back and forth about whether or not he wants to be with me. He says he doesn't know again, so I get angry and tell him I'm going to drive over to his house. He tells me no, but I'm mad so I do it anyway. I get there and his mom answers the door (mind you he's 25) and tells me I need to leave. Here I get angrier and tell her that her son can tell me that. She says no I have to leave. So I do.
Ugh! I feel so stupid. I completely humiliated myself for no reason. I hope this is something I can look back at someday and laugh at, but right now I feel like I wanna die.
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Take a deep breath. Close your eyes, take another deep breath. Acknowledge that there are about a trillion worse situations to be in; your heart is still beating, you didn’t end up in a jail cell…it’s going to be okay. It feels like a huge deal now but that’s just because he cowered and his mom felt the need to get involved. -_- He could have told you that himself instead of involving a third party, amplifying the intensity of the situation. That was a jerk move ESPECIALLY considering that he’s done the same thing to you. So don’t get so caught up in your embarrassment that you forget that. That was wrong for his mother to handle a grown man’s business and speak to you as if there’s something wrong with you when in fact her son is a hypocritical coward who handled his personal sh*t all the way wrong.
Forgive yourself. Call his mom tomorrow to apologize for being disrespectful, maybe explain that you were upset and your feelings got the best of you. Don’t be embarrassed: you were putting up a fight for a jerk who didn’t deserve it.0