I then texted a sorry and I wanted to work things out no reply. Finally I told him I was coming around to either talk about things or to get my belongings (400 dollar pair of reading glasses and a lot of DVDs) he was home I knocked but he refused to open the door.
So I left again and messaged his mum asking if she could help me try and get my things if he doesn't want to be with me anymore , since we are friendly it wasn't weird. Anyway she told me he hasn't spoken to her at all about what's being happening, she then said he was just telling her how much he was happy being with me and that he hasn't been leaving the house at all. She told me she had no idea what is going in his head at the moment but the rudeness he has been showing is unacceptable.
Prior to the fight we had a holiday booked together we were both excited for, various other things planned, he had all future stuff planned for us and everything else seemed fine.
Admittedly when ever we have a fight he tends to go silent until I send a heartfelt apology or he will just completely change the topic. However this is the longest it's gone
Most Helpful Guy
Nothing you can do. You gotta wait him out to get your stuff back, but don't wait around for him.
Most Helpful Girl
He sounds like a Grudge Bearer, sweetie, and with your problems that are More than the cross you are even Bearing, he doesn't deserve a girl like you, with Not even a Text to say "I'm sorry for your loss, baby." That right there would tell me he is not only a hard nose, but has no sympathy for your own stress or Distress and is Not your life support that you may need in Your-------Future stuff planned for us and everything seemed fine... yes, until something like this pops up with a War of the Roses, then he bails out, silence is not so golden and doesn't want to talk it Out with putting you on his pay no mind list.
Do some serious soul searching with someone whom you can't lean on when the chips are down. I don't believe he broke up with you, I am just seeing the sure signs of a twit who is having his own personal hissy Fit and wants you to pay his piper so you can follow him the 'Future' and see that he is in the Lead down this beaten path, which is where I think you are heading.
I still have a husband out in Egypt who I used to fight with all the time with, once coming back here to the states. Long story short, he would stay MAD at me, Pout with his Snout, sometimes a month or more, and then slowly come back with a "Hi" or just out of the boyish pattern Blue----Reply to me when he was over himself.
I believe that if it was Over, mum would have been informed, your stuff ready and waiting for you. He is just trying to not only prove his point in this Point in time But with Me-----What is going through his head is not only rudeness but real inconsideration and childish antics.
I'm so sorry for the strife in your life but with someone who doesn't seem to be there with his own care when life has thrown you a curve ball, this is no excuse, no matter if you Are battling, to put his feelings aside and step up to the plate as A------Supposed soul mate.
Good luck and blessings for 2015. xx