My EX-BOYFRIEND's mom DIED and he wants to talk and meet with me?
What Guys Said 2
he was dating kim? LOl seriously who is the guy and damn he's lucky
now on what should u do, i would be there for my worst enemy if thr mum died because hey its one of the hardest thing in life to loose the one who brought u in this world
He's looking to be consoled and if that means physically then I think he'd be very happy
What Girls Said 2
Okay, so... In this case i think you should show your very best side! :)
Be there for him, losing your mother is a VERY big thing and no matter what his reasons are to reach out to you.. Show him that you care, since you posted this on here i believe you do. (And that's a good thing)
I don't think anyone on here can really tell what other stuff may come up between the two of you.
But my advise would be to support him through his loss.
Also, it would mean a lot to me if hou could check out my latest question and comment :)
Good luck with this girl, must be hard for you too!
One thing that puzzles me is that you are 23 and seem to care so much what your mother thinks who you are in touch with and who you are dating. It really is none of her business. She can say that she doesn't like someone, but that's the most she is entitled to do.
Now to your ex. As you say, he did nothing wrong with being on a dating site and I am not defending him, but I can see why he lied about it. Had he said the truth, he would have most likely lost you. Of course, his lies achieved the same outcome but I can see why he wanted to avoid drama by admitting that he's online dating.
I honestly think you should talk to him. His mother just died. I'd pretty much be there for anybody whose mother just died. And quite honestly, I don't think the lie about the dating site was THAT bad. I mean that guy went out of his way to please you (and your mother) and obviously he didn't want to admit that he is online dating but at the same time, you can't expect him to wait around for you and your mother to finally accept him.
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