I met a woman in November 13 and we immediately hit it off. We were together until June 14 when she suddenly told me (by text) that she no longer wanted a relationship with me. I was devastated partly because she told me that it was her and not me but mainly because she wouldn't even discuss it with me. I thought I'd lost her for ever then got a text in September 14 from her out of the blue asking if I wanted to get back with her. I couldn't be happier because I still loved her so much. She explained that the problem had been with her estranged husband (whom she had left before we met) getting nasty about her impending divorce and she didn't want me to get mixed up in it.
I thought we'd be together for good but a few weeks ago she again announced, by text again, that she wasn't happy and that I should 'find someone who deserved me'. She won't answer my calls or texts and all efforts of her son to get her to talk to me have been in vain. I don't resent her but I resent the way she's treated me. I've treated her like a princess ever since we've been together and I was so happy. then to have it all so cruelly and suddenly snatched away from me has left me devastated.
I've decided that in a few days time I'm going to go to her house and get her to talk to me. I suspect it's something to do with this (soon to be ex) husband of hers and the divorce. She has been hurt in the past both physically and emotionally and I think they've both left their scars. Even if it really is all over for good, I can't close this chapter of my life unless I get some answers from her.
Can anyone give an insight as to what she may be thinking.
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Your best bet is to leave her and the whole situation alone. If the ex is in the picture in any way it can not end good for you, her, or him. Let he be. Love her from afar. Send he one last text and let her know you are there waiting for her to let you in and when she does you will be there, but keep your distance DO NOT GO TO HER HOUSE, STOP CALLING. What ever she is going through or doing doesn't sound healthy and you can't save someone who doesn't want to be saved.0