Basically, I have been going through a hard time with my current boyfriend - no, this isn't going where you're thinking haha. I have no desire to go back to my ex boyfriend, as lovely as he is, we just don't want the same things. However, my current boyfriend has made me realise how much I didn't appreciate my ex. (I have no plans to break up with current boyfriend, i really want to work through our troubles as he's a great guy deep down.)
It was 2 years ago we broke up, so I was a bit younger and just didn't want a serious relationship like he did. So I ended things. However it was as nice as any break up could be, I would never have ended it badly.
Recently though I just really have an urge to send him a friendly text - with no expectations or strings attached - just to tell him that I'm sorry I never appreciated him for how great he was, that I hope he finds what he deserves because he's truly a lovely guy and I hope he's happy.
Thoughts? I'm mostly worried i'll be leading him on, and I would never want to do that as it's not fair. But I do almost wish I could be his friend I guess.
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Truth is that there are some kind of feelings/emotions that stir you up and make you want to text the guy. Not sure how to categorize it, but I sometimes do get it. The person influenced you in a good way and feel like you could do with them around you, that you could learn from them. In a strange way you somehow wish they were around. Something like that, isn't it?0