Basically, I have been going through a hard time with my current boyfriend - no, this isn't going where you're thinking haha. I have no desire to go back to my ex boyfriend, as lovely as he is, we just don't want the same things. However, my current boyfriend has made me realise how much I didn't appreciate my ex. (I have no plans to break up with current boyfriend, i really want to work through our troubles as he's a great guy deep down.)
It was 2 years ago we broke up, so I was a bit younger and just didn't want a serious relationship like he did. So I ended things. However it was as nice as any break up could be, I would never have ended it badly.
Recently though I just really have an urge to send him a friendly text - with no expectations or strings attached - just to tell him that I'm sorry I never appreciated him for how great he was, that I hope he finds what he deserves because he's truly a lovely guy and I hope he's happy.
Thoughts? I'm mostly worried i'll be leading him on, and I would never want to do that as it's not fair. But I do almost wish I could be his friend I guess.
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well, it all depends on how he feels about you. if he really loved you, not conditional but real love, then he would appreciate your text and you guys could get along as friends. and i think it is sweet. but be careful what you are doing. past is past, and this simple text could lead to something, even unexpectedly.
i loved a girl, but it didn't workout, and i hated her for almost a year. but time healed my wound and i am open to talk to her, but i didn't really care or expected anything would happen to us...0