2 months ago my boyfriend told me he had cheating on me. He made out with someone else, that was all, and he said it would never happen again. His honesty mixed with my too-nice personality made me react by forgiving him instantaneously and thanking him for being so honest about it.
Now two months later, I have changed my thought process, and I want to break up with him. Looking back I find it unforgivable to do any sort of cheating with anyone... I do not care anymore that it was "just" making out.
So my question is, how horrible is this going to sound that I'm first ok with everything, then I change my story suddenly?
Most Helpful Guy
It's tough shit to him, he shouldn't of been horrible and cheated no? It's his dirty cheating problem :)0
Most Helpful Girl
It's not going to sound horrible. You have every right to feel this way, even if your initial reaction was to forgive him. If you two were exclusive, he should have had enough self-control (and enough sense) to not make out with another girl. Don't let his feelings stop you from ending things - he certainly wasn't thinking about your feelings when he chose to kiss someone else.0