My bf and I got into it two and a half weeks ago because I felt rejected when he didn't acknowledge me after I shared things with him about my past... Then he came at me with he didn't want expectations, he didn't want to be my "bf"... He has shared things with me and I always listened and/or acknowledged him.
After all was said and done I left the relationship in his hands because I was hurt and confused as to where to go.
It's been two and a half weeks, nothing. He never messaged me back. So this morning, after waking up from a dream where I just wanted closure...
I sent him a fb message saying that I wish he told me it was over rather than just leaving...
I feel like an idiot for messaging. :/ so weak.
Most Helpful Guy
Thats messed up I am sorry to hear that. Its best you move on. Go out with friends stay busy it will help heal you instead of just sitting at home thinking about that guy all day0
Most Helpful Girl
Well, he was honest with you when he said he didn't want to be your boyfriend. Did you ask him out orginally? Sounds a bit like a scenario like you liked him a lot more than he did or else he'd put in a lot more effort right now. You liked him hence sharing your past, leaving it in his hands, messaging him today, stating that you'd wish he'd told you, etc. I'm sorry your match didn't work out. Leave it now. Move on. Don't reminsce over this situation unless you want to figure out a different way of approaching guys. I personally feel it's best not to date and meet someone who wants marriage only. You don't need to date to be a good wife/husband. You just bring in a lot of baggage when you date...0