My boyfriend of 8years recently broke up with me. How do I know he is really over me?

I still love him and can't seem to get him out of my head. Any advice on how to deal with the feelings i have for him. He doesn't want to cut ties and calls me every now and then to check on me yet he says he doesn't want us to get back together. This has left me confused. What do i do?


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  • It seem like he still wants to be friends, but honestly, I don't think that's a good idea. At least for right now. You were together for a long time, and it's obvious that you're trying to heal. Doing that will be damn near impossible with him around. The only way that would work is if there are no romantic feelings anymore, and it sounds like for you, there are. Break ups are NOT easy, and it's going to be a painful transition everyday. But just try to keep yourself busy: hang out with friends, family, work out, whatever helps.


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