My ex boyfriend broke up with me about two months ago. A few weeks later, came back begging for a second chance to try and make things work. 2 weeks ago he broke up with me again because he's not ready to be in a relationship. I was in NC for the past two weeks and plan to stay NC for at least a month. Last night out of the blue he sent me a text saying "Hope you don't think about me because I think about dudes and their freedom and nothing else." Is he being a jerk? Why would he say something like that after a break up? To get me riled up?
Most Helpful Guy
He's just being a baby & is upset at the thought that maybe you aren't thinking of him or moved on. He wants a reaction from you to satisfy his ego. Don't give it to him, be the bigger person & ignore him.1
Most Helpful Girl
What exactly is your intention by acting on NC? Because it should be to get your healing process in action. No contact is supposed to be the driving force for getting an undeserving, troublesome, hurtful presence off of your radar. You’re doing a disservice to yourself if you apply NC in any other way.
This guy sounds like an unclear, heartwrenching jerk who is going to puncture your happiness, hurt your self-esteem, and mess up your ability to know peace because he can’t get his sh*t together and make up his damn mind. Seriously, that is so effed up for him to give you another chance only to pull the same BS again and make you go through that all over again. Forget about what he feels or why he made have sent that worthless little text. He’s an azz and he does not have your best interest so let him go. Completely ignore him, delete and block him from everywhere, and get it in your head that he is dead to you. It’s the only way to heal now. Stop letting him play games and toy with your emotions. If he wants to rub salt in your wounds then all he’s doing is cementing your disdain for him which he will surely regret later. At this point, all you can do is gather your pride and self-respect and kick him the f*ck out of your life. Don’t even give him the time of day. Show him with your actions that you two are done which means he can’t just pop up in your life and start convos anymore.1