Can anyone relate? I was with my ex husband for many years
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I'm afraid of relationships and I've never had a divorce, the future looks grim! lol
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I am not so much afraid of them, but I feel lost to the new way of dating. Men don't date the way they once did and women are not as modest (for a lack of a better word) Its all about sex and how many people you can be seeing at one time. I do feel like I am scared to connect to anyone else for fear of going through the same crap I came out of. I dated one guy after my divorce (I was married 12 years) and dated the guy for two years. I was serious and he was casually dating me I found out after the fact. It took me years to rebuild myself after such a soul sucking marriage then to have someone come and only play with me... This is what I am scared of. I love me and I fear that I may never truly trust or open up to the right one when I see him.