There is this guy at my work place he makes me laugh and he is gorgeous. He acts like he is interested but not sure if this is just office banter.
I enjoy being around him he makes me smile.
my fiancé hates me doing overtime and going on nights out with all the work lot.
What to do im so confused. Help
Most Helpful Guy
Have you ever tried talking to your fiancé about how you feel? He can't read your mind. Communication is the first priority in a healthy relationship. Tell him how you feel and ask him just to listen and not to try to solve the problems. Tell him what you want, what you don't like, and what you think you two can do to reignite the spark. If he doesn't listen, then you tried.
We all get crushes, whether in a relationship or not; if you truly love your partner, you don't act on those crushes.
Most Helpful Girl
It sounds like your soul mate and you have been together for nearly this lifetime, and more also like , he is going and has surpassed this "Seven year itch" in this relationship here, dear. He is in This Rut with you, is getting restless, bored and it is affecting him in the bedroom as well as 'Affecting' him emotionally as Far As----He seams to not to want to go out or do anything anymore... H e may not want to be in this Hooked at the hip hindrance with you anymore
This, too, along with everything else that is on this Listless list, is putting a monkey wrench into your relationship. You both in essence are 'Married in mind' only only and have no bond anymore and whatever may be left, is going quickly out the door.
Suggest to him that you both take a Break from one another for awhile. You are beginning your own beguine to even look in another direction at a cutie coworker at work, which is telling me you are Missing more than the Kissing at home, you are 'Missing' the man who is Now MIA and what you both shared nearly a decade ago. There is no more open lines of convo, nothing to talk about, nothing in common and it's unhealthy.
If he hymns and haws of this 'Break' you put with a bug in his ear, take the bull by its horns and do it anyway. Maybe a little wake up call is what this dead head needs to see that he may lose his Queen Bee if he continues to sweep her under the rug like an ant.
Right now, until something has been decided, don't try and involve yourself in anymore "Overtime"... it will only end up a Triangle Threesome, where you are at the top, looking down, from side to side, at you and the other one who you may find you want to have chasing you around the water cooler.
Being as wise as I am, let me sum this up for you. It doesn't sound as though it is going to go nor end up going down a rosy path, but end up a War of the Roses in this relationship, that you may have to put an end to yourself eventually.
Good luck and blessings for 2015. xx