So me and my ex have had a serious relationship before. Twice actually. The first time she left me, then ileft her. We've both made amends (few months back) over the reasons why. But after ileft her , she got back with another ex ayupnd i got put on the back burner. Now, she only hits me up when they're having it rough. Like, I'm clearly the backup plan. Last time she hit up, we started hanging out again, talked some things out, and almost got back together. then 180°, and she just wants to be with him. The recently, she hits me up, adds more back on social media, then when iask her to go eat, she "doesn't wanna lead me on" and poof! Gone again.
I've been in the game awhile, iknow that means role of fall back. Sad as it is, i still love her and keep getting myself in trouble. I've got other girls (I'm young and single, don't jump my case please) to hang with and talk to, but guess true love doesn't die? I don't know, can't seem to get her outta my head. She was my best friend and lover after all... But I'm in a bad cycle. This has gotta stop. Ineed to get out soon. Tough addiction to break tho, huh? But, before i go... Can iwork/earn/manipulate (however it works) my way into being most desirable to her again?
Most Helpful Girl
Never be anyone's second choice. Have a little more respect for yourself. You can't make her love/want you, and trying to do so will probably have the opposite effect. You know you need to stop, so stop. It really is that simple even though it feels impossible. Addiction is the perfect way to describe it, but you just have to go cold turkey. If she wanted you to be her #1 guy, you would be, but you're not. Sorry if that sounds harsh, but sometimes we need to tell ourselves the hard truth. You'll find someone who treats you better. Never give priority to someone who treats you like an option.0
Most Helpful Guy
Okay bro I feel you man, why did she leave you in the beginning? Then why did you leave Her the second time?0