The other day my boyfriend said it was over and he was never going to talk to me again. Later that same night he sent me all types of dirty text messages saying what he wanted to do. I did not respond with the same need. I told him that I no longer had to reply to him and that he was the one who broke it off, not me. He replied that he needed me. I told him that he should not have broken up with me then. After that he said he was just kidding and that he loved me. I told him that he did not and that I did not believe him. We got back together and now talk some, but he doesn't really text me that much. Was I too harsh? What should I have said?