- does it mean they still see something there?
- does it mean they still want it possibly?
- does it mean they just haven't gotton around it yet?
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I used to be really clingy, needy, and a doormat. I used to hang onto that stuff in hopes of getting them back.
I haven't been dumped in a very long time, so I can't tell you for certain what I would do now, but I'm strong and mature enough to understand the need for a clean break. I did the leaving the last two times. I removed any photos that showed us as a couple, but I left the ones that showed us in a platonic light. I removed any traces of us as a couple immediately, and went no contact for a long while, at least a month before trying to talk. Even then, I only tried to talk to them to get final clarification on what went wrong, not necessarily for closure, but more so that I could learn from it and try to avoid such situations in the future. I managed to get them both back as friends, and everything was fine with both, until one got a new GF, and then he cut contact. It's fine, he did what he had to for his own happiness. I'm about to reach the 1 year mark with my own man.