Most Helpful Girl
It's always all over the place. People have good and bad points. So one person's best may be better in an area your ex needed help in, but they may suck in an area your ex was good.
Most Helpful Guy
Its been a trade-off between looks and personality. The worse she looks the more loyal, hard-working, driven, nice, and all the other good qualities that make a gf. The better looking she was the less trustworthy, lazy, immature etc. she was. I'm not saying this is case with everyone, its just been my experience.