to any man. I'm forcing myself to go out, but just not feeling it. The problem is that he came over yesterday and we slept together. In the middle though, he stopped and said he couldn't go on. I thought sleeping again together would give me an ego boost , and he admitted that she doesn't compare to me in bed, but of course I now just feel worse. I'm at the point where I'm thinking of letting her know anonymously, like an anonymous text. I feel bad that she's marrying what she thinks is her knight in shining armor, when in fact he's cheated on her multiple times. She deserves better and yes, it would be revenge because I'm suffering and he's getting away from this scar free. It's hard for me to just let things be and not have him pay for what he's done :/
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Your ex is a jerk, there's really no doubt about that. But both you AND his fiancee have allowed him to be. She slept with him when he was married, and now you're sleeping with him again when he's engaged to the woman he cheated on you with! I mean your behavior has let him know that this is completely ok. That doing what he did to you was completely ok, and you'll still even give him some added sex on the side.
Getting involved in these situations is never beneficial. You wouldn't be reaching out to her to assuage your own guilt, but to get him in trouble, and I don't really see the point. What do you mean it's not fair to her to end up with a cheater? She slept with a cheater, so why shouldn't she end up with one? And if you think he's getting away free, you're not seeing the big picture. Any guy that needs to cheat on every woman he's with is not happy. He's clearly not happy with her either or he wouldn't need to cheat. He also likely doesn't trust anyone else because he's untrustworthy (he probably worries all the time that she'll cheat on him, too).
Let them be unhappy together and you move on to better things. I don't think you'll meet the right guy who clicks for you until you let him go completely.0