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I think he has a lot on his plate, he mentioned his mum has health and financial problems and he needs to find somewhere to live... you just don't make that stuff up and it is amazingly stressful.
A relationship might just be that extra thing in his life right now that is too much.
When my dad died I moved in with my mum for 6 months so she was not alone and I walked away from my entire social life during that time.
Don't over analyze what he has said, take it at face value, let him know your there if he needs support / help just don't push the issue, in time everything will settle back to a normal pace, and hopefully it works out for you both
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