Most Helpful Girl
I've been with the same guy around 3 years and 7 months. We've never been the wild, party-goers, spontaneous, crazy type. We're more like calm, "let's watch a movie this friday" type of couple. However, I feel we're at a boring state. We do the same things, we go to the same places, we have ran out of things to say. I wouldn't want to be in this state, but it is an indicator that the relationship is also "stuck" and is not evolving. So yeah, breaking up has crossed my mind, but I've also thought of some things that could help us out. We used to make small strips out of the city and spend a weekend in the wild or at another city, just hanging, having fun. (Money might be a problem). We could also sign up for a new thing, like dancing lessons. It would be fun and bring you together. (If either of you are not fond of it, it could be a problem). Go on dates to new, lesser known places and try different types of food, drinks, environments. Like those restaurants in the dark, or those icy ones. Cool stuff. Plan for upcoming event together, like going to a film festival or music festival. Just some ideas.
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