I pushed my ex away by being to clingy so he cheated on me with his ex how do I get him back?

my bf and I had been dating since September. his ex cheated on him so he left her for her. I know I screwed up. around Christmas time I had gotten a new bc shot and it screwed with my emotions making me have viscous mood swings and causing me to become clingy. It wasn't just him experiencing this. well around New years i went down to see him an I knew I wasn't really myself as i would get upset about the dumbest things and i wanted him around and wanted to cling to him. well a little while later i got mad at him for not responding so he got fed up and called his ex and cheated. he ignored me for two weeks and then finally broke it off when all of this was going on my grandma was passing. Looking back now I realize the clingy behavior and my mood has leveled out a lot more now and i want to show him thats not the real me how do i get him to give me a second chance? last night i explained all of this to him and apologize but he only responds if I'm angry not when I'm apologizing i want him back so bad and i don't want him with her. what do i do?

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  • I'm surprised that you would want him back if he cheated on you. I would just learn from the experience and move on personally but if you really want him back and you believe it was because you were being clingy, act the opposite. It's worth a shot.

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  • He cheated. Tell him to fuck off. It's not your fault he cheated, it's his. He should've been there to love, respect, and support you, and he wasn't. Kick his bitch ass to the curb. You can do so much better than that.

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    • Ik that but i kinda want him to come back just to tell him off...

    • Ohhh, I see. Well treat him really nicely. Make it seem like you're not mad. Act completely disinterested in him. Talk about other guys in front of him, not so that it's obvious, but so that he can overhear. And when you get him to start hanging out with you more, play him like a violin. You've dated him, so make sure you stroke his ego where he wants it stroked, make him feel important, hide all the things he's said he hates about you. Then, when he feels like he has the perfect girl, tell him to fuck off. Break his heart like he broke yours. I've done it to many a man, and it's very... therapeutic :) But at all costs, do not let him come back. He's a fucking prick.

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  • people who dont cut the person off when they cheat are retarded and weak

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  • why on earth do you want him back?

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    • because i do love him and i was acting terrible and i totally understand cause i wouldn't like that if someone did that to me. I just don't understand why you would give someone who cheated a second chance and not someone who was clingy

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    • can't compare being clingy to being a cheater

    • Thats kind of contradictory when you why would he would give someone a second chance who cheated but you want him back after he cheated on you hmmm, I would let him go because if he truly loved you he would not have cheated on you period. Trust me I just had my heart broken a few days ago ago and even though I love him and want to still with him he doesn't want me. So no matter what you do or say if he doesn't want to be with you, you can't make him, and even if he decided to get back together with you whats not to say that every time you guys go through a hard time in your relationship he doesn't run back to his ex.

      My advice to you is to move on you deserve better k I know its hard to move on but you have to there is another guy out there that will love you and treat you better k, trust me I'm hurting too because I can't be with my ex because I love him but I know he doesn't feel the same so I'm moving on even though it hurts. You do deserve better k

What Girls Said 1

  • Play hard to get, don't Ct mad or hurt... Act like your to good for him, like your to good for him... Then date your ex ( not exactly suggested kinda a joke ) let him come back for you, when you have him in that checking you out again jealous situation then get him alone... Then you kinda act like you still like him but he hurt you, and your to good for him anyway... Hope it helped...

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