So, I was somewhat dating this guy. He never wanted a relationship with me, never wanted to be seen with me in public, but we always acted like we were dating and yes we've kissed and we have gone pretty far.. He just broke up with me and I'm really hurt by it. I was head over heels for him. Everybody always told us to just date already and he kept telling me the only reason he wouldn't date me was because he was moving. I'm so crazy over him and now I don't know what to do, I'm really hurt by this..
Most Helpful Guy
really think... I know you're young but think
why are you so head over heels for a guy who...
--- didn't want a relationship
--- didn't want to be seen in public with you
--- had a gf and was cheating on you
--- consistently lied to you
those are four of the worst things that can occur in a relationship and it shows without a doubt that guy is scum bag. I think you'll come to realize this for the time being just consider that you are definitely better off without him. you deserve something better and convince yourself of that. you dont' deserve to be kept a secret. real love means you want shout it from the roof tops. real love means you do everything to avoid hurting the person. real love means you don't make a habit of lying.
this guy was a douche. you'll come to realize that especially when you meet a guy who isn't3
Most Helpful Girl
Its just one of those. live and learn things..
Especially highschool guys, your age... they're all kinda douchey and don't know what they want.
A relationship isn't it. They want action, not tying down.
Just be more careful with your feelings now.. Don't give what they want so fast, or you usually will end up sad.
Not saying there isn't great guys, but not 14 ish year old guys. Not for that.0