Only broke up with my ex 5 weeks ago and she is already with a guy mate she had been talking to. We ended on good terms but this just annoys me because I do still care about her but I don't think she cares about herself. I don't believe what she is doing is at all healthy. She hated being single and I's very insecure so I think that may be partly why she's rushed into a relationship already. I Would think it's pretty unlikely she truly likes him even if she does I believe it may stem from feeling comfortable. I found this out seeing it through friends posts on Facebook. This relationship seems very materialistic in my opinion. And I'm hearing bad feedback about it already. I would rather it not be a rebound that then involved me either. I haven't spoke to her since a couple of weeks but this is something that just bugs me. It's not that I even want her back it's more to do with she seems to be sound this for all the the wrong reasons and trying to avoid the healing process after a breakup. What's your take? anyone had a similar experiences?
Is it mean to want your ex's new relationship to fail?
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It's as you stated, you still care about and her and perhaps perceives her willingness and comfort in moving on to someone else so soon after the breakup as a strong indication of your significance to her.
Thus, you feel betrayed and insulted. It's like, "how could she? Why would she do this to me?" As a result, you have ill feelings towards her new relationship and towards her insensitivity towards your feelings for her, which, under the circumstances, seems reasonable.
Given her history, I agree with your assessment of her and I suggest you be slow and careful to take her post-breakup decisions/behavior at face value.0
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