Dated my boyfriend for two and a half years... and I screwed up big time. I hung out with a guy friend yesterday and felt serious sexual chemistry. He tried hooking up with me, but I instantly said "No. I don't cheat. I have a boyfriend and I love him" and I left.
I told my boyfriend what happened when I got back home and he was furious with my "friend". And I also admitted to being attracted to him, and said I was going to shut him out of my life.
My boyfriend said he's done with me and broke up with me because I admitted to being sexually attracted to someone else. I feel so horrible and guilty. How do I get over this? I need help on how to not be such a shitty person.
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Okay first of all it is 100% natural to be sexually attracted to a person other than your boyfriend. No one is boyfriendsexual.
I think you did the right thing by telling your friend no and then telling your bf about it. Your bf did the wrong thing by freaking out. If he can't handle the idea of you being attracted to other men and NOT acting on it then he's not ready for a real relationship anyway. You did everything right. He did not.1