Well I know that you know I love you too. Ending this was one of the hardest things I've had to do since you mean so much to the boys and I. If we were in the same place things would have been diffrent... I don't think I screwed up. I think that this whole situation we put ourselves through was screwed up considering we both knew the outcome the whole time. I don't like that we're not going to be together but I can't think that the decision was bad. There were too many people invested in a relationship that you made very clear you weren't ready for. You know since I wanted more than what you were ready for. And dragging you and the boys this whole time assuming or hoping something would magically change was naive on my part... I don't know at this point I feel like I'm rambling. The point is I miss you and this sucks. This is what I got from my ex she broke the no contact rule after 3 days after we broke up. She wanted me to come over and had sex and she said she misses me.
I'm really confused about all of this please help me
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If there was ever any true love (& children between you), you should never split up. People have fights all the time, including married, engaged, dating couples, politicians, random strangers on the street etc.
I don't understand North America's obsession with separation/divorce? Whatever happened to sticking it out through thick & thin, for better and for worse... true unconditional love that doesn't expect to receive but is only eager and happy to give.. and true love would definitely make you stay with her instead of going some place else or vice versa.
Where I come from divorce/separation is only an option if there is continuous infidelity or physical abuse. Otherwise, everything else could be forgiven, we are human and humans make mistakes.
If you truly have picked a rotten egg.. most likely due to inexperience or marriage/relationship at a young age, you would not refer to her the way you are. My opinion, get over whatever stupid rules you both created to avoid each other when all you want to do is be together; create rules to be together and work things out.
If you both truly love each other, you'll figure it out and learn to forgive each other.0