How can 2 people go from lovers to friends?

We were together for almost 2 years. And we lived together for one of them. I told him I didn't love him anymore and he said he started to feel the same way. The last few months of the relationship I wasn't that happy and I was dissatisfied with how we were living together, so I moved out. I don't feel anything for him anymore but I still care about him and we still have good times together but it's not the same. The break up was mutual and friendly. But it hurts so bad. I hate that I feel nothing. I wanted to have kids and a family with but that vision is gone. How can we be friends after this? It will hurt me so much if and when I see him happier with someone else.. We still want to be a part of each other's lives. But seeing him with someone else will just hurt me too much... How do people cope with this?


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  • Sometimes it isn't possible. I think his new gf wouldn't like him having you as a friend anyway. The same as your new bf wouldn't like you around your ex


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