- leave her
- keep her
Most Helpful Girl
I'm so sorry to hear this... It really sucks when you put stuff on the line to love someone and they just decide to mess it up like it means nothing. It just goes to show that we can't have everything and we can't really base our happiness on another person cause they might just throw it away the first chance they get and in the worst way on top of that.
think of it this way... The cheating was her decision along her journey... I can't tell you how to feel bout that but yes I guess its bound to change how you feel about her. But what I can tell you is dont let her decisions and actions disrupt your journey and your joy in your kids and in your overall life. Choose joy and forgiveness for your own health.
and on leaving her... How will you be going foward? Will you trust again? Will you enter the next marriage and relationship expecting the person to consider you first in their decisions? Will you take the bitterness out on them? What will life look like after you've left her? And what will life look like if you stayed with her?
either way, make sure that you are happy and the outlook is positive. Dont dwell on that decision she made cause anyone can make it... Anyone can drop your happiness... And they can do it everytime
Most Helpful Guy
Look man I feel Ya bro. No it's over. She hurt you too bad. You sound like me as far as seriousness in the commitment of one other and bro if she did it once and it took 4 years to say something then she'd do it again and not say nothing. And how did you find out about her cheating? Did she tell you?