So this girl I work with broke up with me about a month ago and started dating her roommate. It become evident they were "messing around" while we were dating but I keep getting really mad at work because I will see her texting or calling him and saying i love you etc. I try to not pay attention but it bugs the hell out of me, tips for moving on in this close proximity. also leaving my job isn't an option.
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The best thing, the Only thing you can do right now, thunda14, is try and Avoid her as much as you can until it finally comes that day that it will be Strictly business as usual, nothing else in your way.
Right now it is your Over time feelings that are preventing you from getting on, your heart is still fluttering around the water cooler. However, with time on your side, being strong and reminding yourself on a daily basis that this chick isn't putting bread on your own table, will eventually enable you to go about your daily tasks as though nothing ever happened And... it won't bug the hell out of you even after 5 when the door closes and tomorrow is another day.
The relationship went dead in the water it's true. Let this be a little lesson in life and in love Not to mix Business with pleasure again Today or in the future.
Good luck. xx0