How could he replace me immediately?

i've been in a short but very intensive relationship with this guy, we used to talk 24/7 and date almost every day/night. It felt like i know him in a long time and not just 1 month. I felt like i found my soul-mate, cause we had a loooot in common, and we could talk, and have fun like best friends, and the whole time he would be telling me that finally he found the one he was looking for his entire life; alsoo last but not least, i was extremely attracted to him, like to no-other man before in my entire life! Lately thinigs went out of control and we started to argue, and after some days he told me that "all the arguments made him feel cold and that we'd be better off without one-another", so i gave him the space he needed without being "pushy" or "needy".. just after 5 days of our break-up, he posted a picture with a girl telling the whole world that she's his girl. After that, he didn't stop posting, and now he has almost 5 pics of them together. Im going nuts, hooooow in hell could he? or, im really stupid, not to be able to notice that i've been played!!
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p. s we never had SEX!
also, i need to add that, we held hands in public, he told his family about me and introduced me to his best friends...

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  • The guys a player. When will women realize these types of guys don't care about you, they want sex. He played you like a fiddle and you fell for it. I don't feel bad because women know what they're getting into.

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    • we didn't have sex.

    • He found someone who would have sex then.

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  • Awwwh girl, it's nothing you did... he is simply a player. You need to understand and accept that there are some men in this world who possess a pathetic, painfully low self-esteem and playing women is the only way they can feel highly desirable and valuable. They don't actually genuinely know what it's like to be the cream of the crop in terms of quality, so they use the attention and affection of women to delude themselves that they are because ____ *insert amount of females* "want them". Or at least they want the version of him that masks his sleazy, self-absorbed, tactless true self. Chances are that you are not stupid but that he has been doing this for long enough to master being deceptive.

    I know you are hurting and this is going to sting, but eventually the heartache will pass because you will realize that he is not worth replacing thoughts of beauty, positivity, and wander with despair. Delete and block him from everywhere. Ignore him and do not give him the time of day no matter what. He screwed you over and he's a disgusting human being.

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  • You're stupid. He's a good player. Respect to the dude.

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    • well, well, THANK U for being so direct!

    • The main problem of people is that they are not direct enough. If you don't say "you stink" to a pile of s**t, it will never try to smell better.

  • He had a side chick incase y'all broke up

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What Girls Said 2

  • I think he knows exactly what he's doing if he had respected you, he would be honest about it, not that you need to know but the fact that he could just show the 'world' he's moved on that quickly, probably won't last long, rebounds are never good anyway, just know that you're better without this person, if he could do this to you, he could do it to anyone.

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  • He's a smart human being.
    IT DOES NOT MAKE SENSE to sit around crying over spilled milk. He kept it moving and found someone else.. You should do the same.

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