So she ended things last minute. She was about to run away with me and choose me over her parents. Parents told her she would never speak to her again if she did this. But she was settled on moving out with me and backed out last minute.
I guess looking back I really didn't show her I care and she told me this before. Guess I'm that asshole boyfriend. I wish I could of done things different. I want to give her some closure even if she doesn't want me apart her life ever again. Should I do this? I know she's at her worst right now. she called me that next day Hysterically crying. Things got messy with the break up.
miss her like crazy. Been the lonest month of my life.
- leave her aloneVote A
- end things on a better note and contactVote B
- try and win her backVote C
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To be completely honest I think it's best to just leave her alone because she may be feeling a bit better now and if you contact her it may hurt her again. I know you want to show her that you care but that may hurt even worse trust me I know I just went through a break up and my ex was mean and told me that he didn't love me and I was sad for a bit but was feeling better after a while then he contacts me and tells me he still loves me and cares for me which hurt me even worse then him telling me that he didn't love me because now I know he loves and he just walked away.
But it's totally up to you, I know you still love her and you miss her but if you contact her it will be a lot harder on you and her to move on. But if you want to try and work things out with her then you should contact her but if closure is what you want to give her I would say no just leave her alone.1