We were together for 3 years. Nothing was wrong on my end and she wasn't upset with me or anything. She came over to my apartment and said that she couldn't do it anymore and ended it, then she left. I was a very shocked so I didn't chase after her or anything. The next morning I went over to her place to ask her what the hell happened and she said that I shouldn't contact her anymore.
It is so fucking weird. Everything was great two days ago and now.. What? I'm supposed to just not contact her ever again and move on? She's my first everything and I love her so much. I want to respect her wishes, but I can't just forget about her and not talk to her anymore. Could there be another guy?
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she is hiding something from you and she wants to spare you. Keep you from finding out. She could be thinking that she would rather end things now while you still have the chance to do better things and meet someone else instead of waste your time with her who can never be the things that you are hoping she can be. Lol its so dramatic but i remember i felt like that one time.
I loved my boyfreind so much that I wanted him to be happy no matter what. I was really stressed out with my classes and I didn't want my boyfriend to know. He had already graduated so in my mind I was thinking that I need to be just as succesful as him so i ended up putting a lot of pressure on myself to be as succseful and i equated that to being a good girlfriend when I was failing in my classes. I started feeling like I wasn't good enough for him because I wasn't doing good in my classes. One day he called and i told him that he deserves someone better and thats all i said and then i just blocked him in my phone becasue I was hoping it would make him mad and make him forget me so that he can meet someone else. I hadn't talked to him in two days and I was crying and staying up all night trying to study and just telling myself that im not good enough and that he deserves better.
He eventually called my dad to try and get in contact with me and my dad gave me the phone and i had no choice but to talk to him. And my boyfriend was angry that i ignored him for 2 days but he told me he just couldnt accept that i would sudently try to cut him off like that. He said he was worried and thinking about me the whole time trying to figure out what was going on and he said it affected him in his work becasue he kept thinking about me. I felt so bad that he felt that way and I ended up telling him that I was not doing good in school and i just feel like im not good enough becasue of that.
and he told me he didn't want to put any pressure on me and for me to put him up on a pedastal like I was doing. He ende0