Most Helpful Guy
Tl;dr but from what i can tell, he's unsure about you, i had the same thing, one moment u feel lonely next moment u feel so good on ur own, best cause of action, block his number and move on... Sorry if that sounds insensitive :/
Most Helpful Girl
This sounds like emotional abuse. I'm glad you are seeking counselling, because I think it will really help.
I was in a situation like this a couple years ago. I started seeing this guy, as he seemed really nice and smart. We talked, we had a few things in common. He was a little older than me but I didn't mind.
When my lease was up, he told me to move in with him so I did. That's when this all started. He started to get angry and upset with me if I did not cater to him. If I didn't cook dinner for him, he would yell at me and threaten to kick me out of his apartment.
If I didn't clean up his messes, then he would yell at me and threaten me. I was scared and because I had no where else to go at the time I didn't know what to do.
He would text me and threaten to hit me and assault me if I told anyone. I eventually go out of the relationship. And I am so glad I did!
You do not deserve this at all! What he is doing is not love it is abuse!
He's getting angry with you because he feels he cannot control you at this point. What you need to do is you need to change your number, or block his number on your cellphone. I have an app called Mr. Number which allows me to block numbers. It's free and it works really well!
Also, delete him off facebook and tell your friends you are trying to get away. This is in fact abuse, no one who truly loves you will threaten and yell at you for moving on with your life. Normal people do not do that.
Unfortunately you are a very caring soul who took sympathy on a guy who you thought was in hard times. He saw you as someone he could manipulate and control and that is how this whole thing got started. It's not your fault, you were just trying to be kind. But trust me, this guy does not love you. You need to get out and stay as far away from him as you can.
Tell your friends that you do not want them telling him about you.
Please don't go back to him because he will only do this again!