Was it a blessing he did? When you loved him and was loyal?
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Well ofcourse in my the past three months its been hell. But constantly reminding yourself that they don't want u and its okay helps.. N then u ask urself y a lot. Til you eventually see that they overlooked you that's all. And someone will see something worth keeping. This was my journey.
I, learned that there's nothing wrong with either of us... I just wasn't to his liking and he's entitled to that cause its his life and he should do what he wants with it.
all of that was hard to accept. But I finally did. And after that I started looking at my life and counting my blessings and naming them. Realized that we are in two different paths and he would drag me down honestly cause I was loving him through a lot of stuff.
so now I've got only myself to carry and I know myself and I know that I love myself. And that's the best kind of love cause its forever.
and then after all of that crying and listening to myself... He tells me he regrets everything.
and at this time all I want to do is thank him for removing himself from my life. And not even in a bitter way.
so yes, it was a blessing.1