I was dating this guy for just over a month, and he ended things with me a few days ago. He said it had nothing to do with how he felt about me, he said he honestly really liked me, thought I was awesome, but the distance was becoming an issue (he lived about an hour away and had no time for a long distance relationship) It really hurt cause I liked him a lot too, and if we lived closer it could have turned into something amazing. I still have his number, although am keeping myself from texting until I can get over these feelings. Would it be a good idea to message him after some time has passed? I don’t know if he’d ever change his mind, but should I try? Or at least make subtle hints that I’d like to try and date again? Thanks :)
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You haven't even fixed the issue that caused the problem. So why try until that problem is fixed?
That being said, I do NOT recommend you moving closer to him just to be with him lol. I'm just making a point. If a guy broke up with me because I had green hair, and then a week later I decided to try again it would be pointless because my hair is still green. You catch my drift.
Besides have you considered other reasons that may have contributed to his decision? How do you know he hasn't started dating someone closer to him? Something like that could've made it easier to end it with you.
Just let it go for now...1
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