I broke up with my fiancé of 6 years saying I just wanted space and needed time since I felt I was losing myself. He always told me he couldn't imagine being with anyone else and begged me to take him back, also saying he'd wait for me since I just needed time.
But I found out two months later that he had started seeing someone, and someone that he used to talk about a lot when we were together. I know he didn't cheat on me, but for some reason I feel hurt about it.
Why do I feel this way? Especially as I am now with someone else and was the one who broke up the relationship in the first place. I'm confused.
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Fiance of 6 years? That alone would have been an eye opener for me. Usually people plan their wedding after proposal. But it seems as if he had no hopes of ever following through.
BIG red sign for me.
You probably feel that because you wanted his original words to be true. You wanted him to wait for you. You wanted to feel as if you had significant importance in his life (whether you took him back or not). Instead he quickly moved on as if you and him never happened.
Feeling as if you are easily forgotten would hurt anyone. Especially , when you spent six years of your life trying to build something meaningful.0
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