Why does my Ex hate me? Is it possible to be friends with your ex?
I've always wondered if it's possible to be friends with an ex. My ex was maybe my first love - real love.
I met him 4 years ago and felt like we belonged, two years later I met him again randomly while dating his friend. When his friend and I broke up, he chased me like crazy. I kept rejecting him but then I finally gave in.
We had the best relationship, we were soooo close. We had sex all the time, we talked 24/7 I could see myself marrying this man.
And then one day I found out he was sleeping with someone else. Was it all fake? But I knew it couldn't be, we were extremely close. I thought maybe he slipped up. So I forgave him.
I had serious trust issues with him, a part of me hated him but I stayed I worked through it and got over it.
Then I found out he cheated again.
So I told him it was over. He texted me periodically the day we broke up. And then I told him to stop texting me, and he just switched off. He called me a bitch, he told me that he was going to post naked pictures of me online, he kept attacking me.
I was mad at him, but I never knew he could switch so easily.
Then I felt like I did something wrong wfen though he was the one who cheated on me.
I was so heartbroken that someone I once loved so deeply was able to switch so quickly.
He then got married 3 months later -
Can someone give me clarity as a guy how do you just shut off?
- Yes, it is possible.Vote A
- No it's not possibleVote B
Most Helpful Girl
You want to be friends with this person? Doesn't sound like he's very nice to you. I think you dodged a bullet.3