I've always wondered if it's possible to be friends with an ex. My ex was maybe my first love - real love.
I met him 4 years ago and felt like we belonged, two years later I met him again randomly while dating his friend. When his friend and I broke up, he chased me like crazy. I kept rejecting him but then I finally gave in.
We had the best relationship, we were soooo close. We had sex all the time, we talked 24/7 I could see myself marrying this man.
And then one day I found out he was sleeping with someone else. Was it all fake? But I knew it couldn't be, we were extremely close. I thought maybe he slipped up. So I forgave him.
I had serious trust issues with him, a part of me hated him but I stayed I worked through it and got over it.
Then I found out he cheated again.
So I told him it was over. He texted me periodically the day we broke up. And then I told him to stop texting me, and he just switched off. He called me a bitch, he told me that he was going to post naked pictures of me online, he kept attacking me.
I was mad at him, but I never knew he could switch so easily.
Then I felt like I did something wrong wfen though he was the one who cheated on me.
I was so heartbroken that someone I once loved so deeply was able to switch so quickly.
He then got married 3 months later -
Can someone give me clarity as a guy how do you just shut off?
- Yes, it is possible.
- No it's not possible