I find she has been on my mind but I haven't seen or heard anything from her since January when I last saw her at a bar I go to. but I find I wonder about her and what she has been up to as she's been away at school in another city and doesn't really live here anymore although sometimes comes back for summer. I'm rather frustrated about the whole thing and have no real way of contacting her anymore as she had either blocked me or on sites I don't have an account on like instagram.
guess I worry about her too as to what she's up to , she's sort of still the wild party girl type and had an issue with alcohol and didn't seem interested in trying to help herself and just wanted to get drunk. but she still seems to be doing ok at school and somehow manages to balance things. but I haven't heard from her in several months and its starting to get to me for romantic reasons but also others. and not really sure if there's anything I can do about it
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Forget her, sweetie, she has given you a hint by 'Either blocked me or on sites I don't have an account on like instagram.'
Often we think about an "EX" who was no good for us and even though it drives us crazy to 'Worry' as to what is going on with them, you have to stop and ask yourself Why did we break up? And being she was this 'Sort of still the wild party girl type and had an issue with alcohol,' you are better off without her... you would just be her Enabler to get nowhere with her, but just be someone who was always there to constantly pick up the problem pieces for her.
Move on and find someone who is in your own league. This one is way out in the field somewhere and I don't see anything but going down a beaten path with her, ending up a War of the Roses, even if you would reunite with her tomorrow.
Good luck. xx0
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