Soooo my ex boyfriend of 6 months started acting distant out of no where (no prior disagreement). He used to call me every morning then one day nothing. I had class early mornings so I didn't think anything of it at first and contact him around lunch as I always did. After about two weeks still nothing but growing distant and infrequent calls. my patience was running out so I asked him what was up. He told me he was stressed because the mother of his child was giving him a hard time about money etc. He was stressed about his asthma etc. by the way his child's mom has another child who is younger than his and she's married to the father (non factor). So I was understanding and supportive even setting aside my own feelings for his. When he spoke about his Great Depression which seem to spring from nowhere I was there for him in every way. Even surprising him into fits of happiness. Two weeks later nothing. Still distant but hold on I call him and he is constantly moving and shaking with his friends (all single/cheaters) my cousin he is one of them lol. I make a mental note that he is no longer sad. Give it a few days and verbalized I would need more attention might have thrown a few soft ultimatums " treat me like you were before or I will know what's up". Still nothing! I'm patient by nature but enough was enough I told him that he was breaking up with me by continuously for a month straight not doing anything I asked of him to make things work. Lol still nothing. So some time goes by and then he brings a gift to my house but when he calls I'm out Christmas shopping with my sister. Then a month later sends edible arrangements to my job Valentine's day that say I love you and I never forgot about you. I entertain the conversation for a week or two.(I don't stay friends with an ex ever) I told him that from the beginin when we were getting to know each other. If we were friends for years first then fine but if we weren't bye Goodluck.
Why did my ex boyfriend get me a Christmas gift then a valentine gift and keeps calling and texting me with small talk or the occasional I love you?
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I'm pretty sure you can answer that one lol, its pretty obvious he likes you.0
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