I am starting to hate my boyfriend, children's father. He criticizes my interests, music, likes and holidays. Im Black and grew up in Seattle Washington in a interracial house hold. Most of my friends are white. He tells me everything I like to. do is for white people, certain foods I like is for white. people and that black people dont do. thungs I. do. we get into huge arguments over it.
Also, Christmas is something super special to. me. I love everything about it decorating, making cookies, celebrating it, I love the positivity. But he tells me I'm too old for. it, and immature and that Christmas is only for the kids. I am 23, but when Christmas comes around he always gets a tree and wants to decorate it with his favorite football teams color but won't won't let me touch the tree at all... I say why do you even have a tree when you hate Christmas?
I begged him to let me decorate the tree because I love Christmas so much and I love the holiday spirit, Christmas commercials I love everything about it but he won't let me touch the tree at all. I feel that it is not right he hates Christmas but decorates the tree I love Christmas but I'm not allowed to decorate the tree. I beg him to let me decorate the tree the way I want to but he gets mad and says no.
The same thing goes with Halloween people my age dress up go clubbing and partying but he said I'm too old.
I love stuff like water tubing hiking and camping and we get into hugeee arguments, he says I am too white. black people don't do that shit and that I should move back to Seattle.
Everything is black and white with him I hate the way he talks about people
But. We have twins together
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He is apparently a disgrace to the human race. You made a horrible choice by being with him AND having children. He is an abusive, immature, horrible person, possibly beyond repair.4