I said we should take a break a week ago. So we did not talk to each other for a week now he's back on social media and made dating profile and talking to others. I contacted him today bitched at him for doing that then i said he's hurting me and apologized. He did not even respond to a single message of mine. He said he cares less now. How can he move on so fast? Why is he ignoring me? how do i get his attention???? he is not even picking up my calls!
My ex bf is not replying to me its making me mad. how do I get back at him?
What Guys Said 7
To the people giving her a hard time, saying things that are only putting her down. Give her a break! Seriously, she would be feeling really bad right now and you aren't helping her situation, if you have nothing helpful or good to say, then don't talk.
Ok try this, don't talk and don't text him. By you talking and texting a lot and him not replying, is going to drive you more crazy and he will ignore you even more. By you stopping all of a sudden, you can get back at him, don't talk to him for a while, so you can see what is going on, at the same time, he does not seem like a good bf, you told him to have a break and then he does all this to you, he shouldn't be doing that. I would say leave him, he is the one, that did this mess. But for the meantime, don't talk to him!2
Well, obviously if you don't want anything to do with him anymore, why bother? Move on.2
Because you cast him aside so easily, "Taking a break" is a nice way of saying we broke up. Maybe next time you will work through your problems instead of running away from them1
I mean, you guys broke up, no? It sounds like he's moved on, and you should do the same.1
I feel you, she said we should take a break, and then she just blocked me, and the worst, i don't even know why.0
You Wanna get back at him? Sleep with me.0
What Girls Said 8
How about you put your big-girl panties on, stop acting like a teenage drama queen, grow up and actually put your effort and emotions into someone who treats you like a priority instead of an option?
He's ignoring you because you are either acting immature, or he's immature, or he's over you and trying to move on, or you two are just not compatible. ALL of these scenarios are bad, and are obvious reasons to move on.
It's quite easy to move on fast if you never really had something there to begin with.2
Well, he lives in a different state, you don't know what he's doing all day long or who he might be seeing. Then, you must have hurt his pride when you said you needed a break, and he got tired of it so he just moved on, if he's set his profile available again that's because he definitely wants something different now (if he's bailed on you twice he was just that not into you anymore, because when you love or care you do anything to be with the significant other). One thing I noticed is that you said ''you bitched him about something.." Men get tired of girls bitching around all the time, and I understand, I'd be totally sick if a guy makes scenes to me all the time, it would be so exhausting, so next time just go ahead and face things like the age you are, not like a 5 year old.
I'm with you girl, but if he's not picking up your calls anymore or he doesn't show interest, then forget about him. Have some self-respect and dignity. A truly gentleman would never let you low your worth.
Forget about this guy.0
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He is your EX he doesn't have to take your calls and he can do whatever he wants... he's fucking single.3
Why are you even giving this guy the time of day? He's showing it clearly that he doesn't care, just move on and stop contacting him.0
You don't sound mature enough to be in a relationship. You did this to get back at him for doing this and blah blah blah. You told him you wanted a break, he didn't and you insisted. This is your own doing. Next time you have an argument with a partner, maybe you shouldn't suggest a "break". A "break" is basically a breakup, so he's moving on and I can't say that I blame him.2
It sounds like he wants to move on. Maybe you should to.1
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