So my ex and I broke up and I believe he may have feelings for me still. He wanted to be really good friends with me and I said sure that sounds like a good idea but I said it only because I did not want to lose him, even if that meant remaining friends and I still wanted him to be a part of my life. So skip ahead a couple of days later and we were talking/texting and I told him you can't just be friends with someone you're still in love with and he asked me why am I even in love with him and I told him something like "guys get over girls a lot quicker than girls get over guys. Look at you, you were over me within a couple of days probably less" and his reply was "who said I was over you?" I told that to some friends and my mom and they're like aww he's not over you.
Could it be that he's hurt and I hurt him? I was the one who broke up with him but out of hurt. I know I shouldn't have done that. I broke up with him because he said he didn't care if we were together or not anymore but I now know that was out of hurt because he was having family problems at the time I guess. But I also would get attitudes and sort of take it out on him by ignoring him or not talking much when I wanted to be left alone. I told him I'd do anything to get back together again but he didn't want to and I wasn't just saying that to reel him in and hurt him again. I meant it. He's a good .. great boyfriend but he thinks he wasn't that good. He was the best ever.
We had a good strong relationship but I don't know what happened
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He doesn't want to feel the way he felt while you were dating, the relationship was too much. Or he don't won't to get hurt1