Guys, ex bf help please?
What Guys Said 1
While most here at this site would consider me a bit old fashioned or even traditional , I see it like this ; if he is going to be seeing other women/ girls while you two are split up then you have every right to do the same. And to be brutally honest it isn't any of his buisness if you do. Good gosh !! He actually pulled your hair for not telling him if you had seen some one else? Pssst..
If it's just the arguments that have become the wedge that drove you apart , then the only thing to do is try and figure out how to stop having all this drama come between you. If disagreements become fights it's almost always because both are control freaks , what I mean by that is neither will let the other be correct , they for some reason have to be right all the time ; and to be honest it would just be pure hell on both. Any meaningful and lasting relationship will only make it is nurtured rather than forced. I can't say one way or another if you two will get back together or not but if it's approached as it was before I can say it wouldn't last.
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