I think I can't get over it because this was so out of the blue and not at all like him? But I need help trying to forget?
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I actually spent a few weeks with a therapist talking solely about the topic of closure and how it is difficult to move on without knowing the truth. But at the end we actually realized through discussion that sometimes you think you need closure when you actually already have it right there. I know you really want to know what happened and what his reasons were but I can tell you now that whatever he has to say will probably still not be enough for you. I'm talking out of experience here. You should look at it for what it is.. he lost interest or the relationship was just no longer working. Sometimes there isn't even a clean cut reason for it and I suspect that is the case here. His behavior towards you with the all the abuse tells me he is also still very much immature, confused and in a bad place in his life. He needs to grow up first and get a grip. The closure you need you already have and that is by him deciding to hurt you and leave you. Whatever his reasons are... it really doesn't matter because either way he did that to you and no reason is valid or good enough to excuse it.
He was trying to get through to you for a reason. I would slowly try to reach out to him. Unblock him or even call him private and ask what went wrong. You need closure. Until you get closure you won't be able to stop thinking about it. My ex did the same thing to me. And its been give years since... Yet its still eating at me daily. Good luck.
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