Most Helpful Guy
Sounds to me like he got what he wanted and is ready to move on to his next target.
Most Helpful Girl
sounds like you scared him off.
At the beginning you should always take it slow, also making sure this guy is really someone you want to be with.
Making so much effort to be in his life, he must have thought that you will need constant reassurance or all of his time, all the time.
Let me tell you a little secret, and this is where many women go wrong:
when a guy distances himself from them, they try even harder to show them how much they love him and stuff. This is actually the worst thing you can do.
It comes off as clingy and nuts. Like, why if I am being an ass is she giving me even more attention? Something has to be wrong with this person...
If a guy was ever wishiwashi with me, I'd tell him straight away to get his shit together and not waste my time. This has worked very well for me. Because, I really do hate wasting my time with "maybes" and "sure, but..." So for me it is either yes or no. anything in between is not going to cut it. The guy that understood this and shared my point of view is now my fiance.
maybe he'll come around, maybe he won't. a month isn't really enough time to get attached to someone to much.
In the meantime do your thing and forget about him. Don't wait for him. There are many many good fish in the sea.