Most Helpful Guy
I can relate, my first wife cheated and i still can't forgive her even 14yrs later, but i am way past beating myself up over it. i used to until i realised that it was consuming so much time and effecting my work and current relationship, you need to deal with it one way or another or you'll never move on. Hope this helps
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Most Helpful Girl
As it pertains to relationships, one can wonder, ponder and even imagine what the difference might have been if you forgave your partner.
Yet, how you view the situation and yourself should give you an answer as to whether or not you will have regrets. Unfortunately, I think that your post was a bit vague and with that I can't be entirely clear on what it is that took place to which you could have potential regrets about.